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Note: I will NOT add anyone back who doesn't bother to introduce themselves so I know our common interest or if their journal is empty. If you are under the age of 18, I might not add you back, as many of my posts are considered to be adult in nature. Sorry, but "add me" isn't an introduction.

I'm always open to new friends, all you have to do is tell me about yourself. :)

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Who I am:
I'm a southern gal, but far from being a hick. I'm happily married with 3 great sons. I love period films, BBC in particular and I collect vintage photographs and fashion plates from the 1700's until around 1960. I love 18th and 19th century English and French history and am attempting to learn the French language (and doing terrible at it, just ask anyone I've tried it out on). I'm a hopeless romantic, into really bad made cult films and still into 80's rock. I write novels and fanfiction constantly and have a particular love of vampire novels as long as they're adult centered. Most of my posts contain subjects pertaining to my children, autism, movies, general life crap and an occasional rant or two. I love comments but don't require them. I consider myself a good commenter on posts when I have something important to add. If I have an opposing view, I won't comment unless asked or if I feel I can make a good point and it be accepted. I hate flame wars, so I don't participate in them. But I can always discuss and agree to disagree.

I'd love to be friended by those with similar views, but honestly, as long as you're courteous, I don't care. I keep my views/musings/ramblings under a cut so that my f-list can choose what to read and what not to read and I hope you do that too. I have no problem removing someone from my f-list who decides they're above being considerate. If you're looking for arguments or someone to rile up, perhaps I wouldn't be the best candidate to friend. Otherwise, I'd love to meet and get to know you.

Thanks for stopping by!

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If you know who made the True Blood gif I'm using, please tell me so I can give credit. Thanks!

sirena_of_csirena_of_c on August 16th, 2007 01:30 am (UTC)
i want to be added too :(
a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on August 16th, 2007 11:57 am (UTC)
You're already on my f-list, sweetie. ;)
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a vampire's reluctant muse: Andre-OOPSgreeneyedmissy on September 13th, 2007 02:39 pm (UTC)
*whistles innocently*

Brain fart? :)
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(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on September 13th, 2007 06:52 pm (UTC) (Expand)
kailorien on September 14th, 2007 08:41 am (UTC)
Clearly, you're a Gerry fan! And that means we have something delicious in common! *teehee* Friended. :)
a vampire's reluctant muse: Gerry-in your eyesgreeneyedmissy on September 14th, 2007 01:41 pm (UTC)
Hello, nice to meet you! Friended back. Always great to have another Gerry fan aboard! I love the design of your LJ page. Hope you enjoy it here. ;)
timidaffection: Gerry Butler: In Lovetimidaffection on September 23rd, 2007 08:27 pm (UTC)
Gerry rocks!!! Wanna be friends?? hahaha
a vampire's reluctant muse: gerryinbluegreeneyedmissy on September 23rd, 2007 10:29 pm (UTC)
Thanks for friending me, friended you back! ;)
Spikes Bint: Jane Austenspikesbint on November 3rd, 2007 02:21 pm (UTC)
hi gem, I wanted to come and ask a little favour, you may have seen that you have won the header challenge at silver, could i ask that you make a default icon to match it?

I meant to include the default icon as part of the challenge when I posted it, but by the time I realised my mistake it was too late and entries had started coming in.

thank you, and congrats :)
a vampire's reluctant muse: Gerry-PSILYgreeneyedmissy on November 3rd, 2007 04:30 pm (UTC)
Sure, I'll be glad to make one. Should I put Silver_stills on it? ;)
(no subject) - spikesbint on November 3rd, 2007 04:56 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on November 3rd, 2007 05:12 pm (UTC) (Expand)
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(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on November 3rd, 2007 05:50 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Spikes Bint: gerry super hottiespikesbint on November 3rd, 2007 02:24 pm (UTC)
on another note, I was nosey and looked at your user info, we are the same age :P lol and have three kids. Mine are 14, 16, & 18. How old are yours?
a vampire's reluctant muse: butler - OCDgreeneyedmissy on November 3rd, 2007 04:50 pm (UTC)
LOL! Oh that's cool!
I have 3 boys, ages 14, 11 and 9. You have girls, boys or combo? :D

And how stupid I feel, that recently, it hit me that you're also on fanfiction.net and wrote Past the Point of No Return, a story that I read in late 2005 before I started posting my fanfiction on there. If I'm not mistaken, I think its listed in my fav stories section. Yeah, where is my brain these days?? LOL!!
(no subject) - spikesbint on November 3rd, 2007 04:57 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on November 3rd, 2007 05:14 pm (UTC) (Expand)
Elizabeth: Gerardstardust78 on November 9th, 2007 09:06 pm (UTC)
I have a question for you. How did you get your icons under my latest creations on your journal like that? :)
a vampire's reluctant muse: Ger-b&wgreeneyedmissy on November 9th, 2007 09:28 pm (UTC)
I have it under the sidebar blurb. You just enter the image source code and it'll show up. I don't know if your layout has that, but mine is flexible squares. You should make sure that the blurb on your sidebar is checked to show up. ;) Hope this helps!
(no subject) - stardust78 on November 9th, 2007 09:47 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on November 10th, 2007 02:08 am (UTC) (Expand)
all_who_i_am: 2 bridesall_who_i_am on November 24th, 2007 12:18 pm (UTC)
Hi, just wanted to you that I took one of the wallpapers for private use :D Don't know where exactly to credit you though :D
a vampire's reluctant muse: fallen-vincentpicgreeneyedmissy on November 24th, 2007 03:10 pm (UTC)
You can credit me as greeneyedmissy or if you credit me outside livejournal you can credit me as greeneyedmissy at livejournal. ;)

I'm curious, which wallpaper did you snag? I like to know who takes what so I know what people like. Thanks!
(no subject) - all_who_i_am on November 24th, 2007 03:18 pm (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on November 24th, 2007 03:23 pm (UTC) (Expand)
think_n_colorthink_n_color on December 18th, 2007 03:33 am (UTC)
Your work is incredible! Simply lovley! vivid colors, clever style. Most impressive. Hope you have a wonderful holiday season. ciao
a vampire's reluctant muse: christmas-red ballgreeneyedmissy on December 18th, 2007 01:27 pm (UTC)
Thanks so much for the wonderful compliment! You have a great holiday also. :)
think_n_colorthink_n_color on December 20th, 2007 09:55 pm (UTC)
Thank you GEM for the visit to mibella_icons. I appreciate the compliment. Take care!
think_n_colorthink_n_color on December 23rd, 2007 09:37 pm (UTC)
Look at you! wow! Love the new header!!! The colors are beautiful!
(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on December 24th, 2007 12:09 am (UTC) (Expand)
melody♫pond: actor - my future husband for realprizedham on January 7th, 2008 03:29 am (UTC)
i'd say we share and very strong similar intrest in that of Gerard Butler. add? :)
a vampire's reluctant muse: Gerry-PSILYgreeneyedmissy on January 7th, 2008 04:22 am (UTC)
Sure thing, you're added and welcome! :)
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a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on January 20th, 2008 10:24 pm (UTC)
Sure, I'll add you now, thanks!
blueeyedsuzieblueeyedsuzie on January 23rd, 2008 10:24 pm (UTC)

It seems we do have a few things in common... first off Gerard Butler, and The Phantom of the Opera.... oh and icon making as well.

I was wondering if you'd like to add me as a friend... and once I get the okay I'll do the same for ya!

I also think we have two friends in common as well, spikesbint, and carmiana...
a vampire's reluctant muse: fallen-vincentpicgreeneyedmissy on January 24th, 2008 12:43 am (UTC)
It sure seems that we do have a bit in common. I'll add you, no problem. Thanks for joining crimson_iink too. :)
(no subject) - blueeyedsuzie on January 24th, 2008 01:58 am (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - greeneyedmissy on January 24th, 2008 04:05 am (UTC) (Expand)
fleetingbeautys on April 2nd, 2008 06:50 pm (UTC)
please join!
all_who_i_am: alleyall_who_i_am on April 22nd, 2008 07:11 pm (UTC)
Wow, this new layout is so gorgeous!!!

Where is it from?

And you are so cute! I love knowing how people I meet on the Net look like. Although I myself almost never post photos of me

a vampire's reluctant muse: just text - wang chunggreeneyedmissy on April 22nd, 2008 07:25 pm (UTC)
I'm glad you like the new layout, its by minty_peach. Pink/darkbrown/black is my favorite color combo, so when I saw it, I knew it was me.

Oh, thanks! I hardly put pics of myself out there either, but for my profile, I thought, what the hell and went for it. :) I like seeing the faces behind the names as well.
dracschick: WWDDdracschick on May 5th, 2008 12:48 am (UTC)
OT: Hi!
I found your LJ through several of my flist buddies and thought we had some interests in common (I love Phantom and I'm also a Gerard Butler fan) so I friended you.

Feel free to read my LJ and friend me back.

PS--I love your icons:)
a vampire's reluctant muse: gerry- dark handgreeneyedmissy on May 5th, 2008 03:21 am (UTC)
Re: OT: Hi!
Hi and thank you for adding me! I'm glad you like my icons. :)

Friending you back. :)
ღ spooky.angel ღ: parisspooky_window on June 16th, 2008 09:52 am (UTC)
OMG !!! i love your new header, and the FO banner too ! the coloring is gorgeous =D
a vampire's reluctant muse: children sleepinggreeneyedmissy on June 16th, 2008 02:13 pm (UTC)
Awwww thank you so much!

The photos are off of flickr by danske. Her link is on my profile. She takes amazingly artistic polaroids, I just love them! The coloring and all that is by me of course. LOL!
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louiseashley07: butler-cutelouiseashley07 on July 9th, 2008 10:11 am (UTC)
Hello. Uhm... I am a big fan of Gerard B. and POTO, and if you are too, can we be friends? and also, I'm a big fan of your lovely icons. :)
a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on July 9th, 2008 04:31 pm (UTC)
Go ahead and add me to your f-list and I'll friend you back, glad to have you aboard! :D
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Hatshepsut still rules!: Gorgeous Atilladjeannot on October 4th, 2008 11:42 pm (UTC)
Happy Birthday, Gorgeous One, Bringer of Beauty! Thanks for all that you do :)
a vampire's reluctant muse: flowers - le fleursgreeneyedmissy on October 5th, 2008 01:34 am (UTC)
Wow! Thank you so much for those eloquent words! I've had a wonderful birthday today! :D
PocketSizedLionpocketsizedlion on December 14th, 2008 09:11 pm (UTC)
hey, i added you, could you add me back?
thanks :)
Spikes Bint: thornton newspikesbint on April 22nd, 2009 09:35 pm (UTC)
Just to let you know that I have nominated one of your icons at costume_awards
a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on April 22nd, 2009 10:34 pm (UTC)
Thanks for letting me know and for the nomination, I appreciate it!
Princess June: haute coutureprincessjune on May 10th, 2009 05:34 pm (UTC)
Hello! My name is June, I'm 27 years old and I live in San Antonio, Texas. I love Elizabeth Taylor, the Regency era, the Phantom of the Opera, and so much more!

I was wondering if you could please add me? If you would like to know anything else, I will be happy to answer!
a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on May 12th, 2009 12:36 am (UTC)
Hi! Thanks for the add, I've added you back! :)
olde_fashioned: 18th C.  -- Chaplin girl in pink & turqolde_fashioned on May 21st, 2009 05:41 am (UTC)
You say to speak my mind, so I'm going to! Firstly, I feel like a total moron, because I thought I'd already added you. *blushes quite a bit about this*

Secondly, since we haven't added each other, and since we seem to chat all the time everywhere else, would you be interested in friending each other? No hard feelings if you're not interested, but I feel like you're a friend already and I'd love to get to know you better. :-) I think you know a lot (enough?) about me already to make a decision? If not feel free to quiz me. ;-)
a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on May 21st, 2009 12:44 pm (UTC)
Cool! No, I don't mind adding you at all. I want to be sure to tell you ahead of time that some of my rants that are on here, which you'll read when I friend you, have a good deal of colorful language due to my being mad at the particular subject I'm ranting over. It's usually always under a cut, but I don't always warn about the language. I just wanted you to know that so you wouldn't go read it and get blindsided it. I'm normally not a cussing person beyond just the basic couple of words, but when I'm mad, it all lets go. :)

My political stuff, what little it is, is also under a cut because I have people on my f-list that are not Republican and I although some of them are not always as courteous when posting their opinions, I put mine under a cut so they can choose to read it or not.

So if its all cool with you, I'd be happy to have you on my f-list! :)
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a vampire's reluctant musegreeneyedmissy on June 19th, 2009 10:41 pm (UTC)

I typically wait for people to respond here for me to add them since in the past i've been burned by some who have wanted me to add them, then they unfriend me after reading my f-locked posts. Which is also why I make myself a pretty open book on this post, so people can choose to friend me or not. :)

So I'll absolutely go add you! *grins*
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I refuse to give up my obsession: TB - Eric's mouthendlessdeep on August 29th, 2009 05:47 am (UTC)
Hi there, I saw that you like True Blood, so I was wondering if you'd like to be friends. :)

Your header is gorgeous btw.
a vampire's reluctant muse: eric - sookie namegreeneyedmissy on August 29th, 2009 01:39 pm (UTC)
Hi! Sure, love to be friends! I've added you back. Thanks, I'm glad you like my header... *swoons over Eric*